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fem - 11-09-2005
Ok, so I have a question for yall. .it's kind of a long story.
Well, my best friend has had this "fuck buddy" for the past 2 years or so. He just recently got a gf (which he's ending soon) and he called it off with my friend. Well she's is supposedly crazy in love with this guy and he doesn't give a fuck about her. All she is too him was a fuck. Now he thinks she's crazy and shit because she won't leave him alone, always calls him blablabla. She is supposed to be getting married and move to Phili by next May, so why is she worried about this guy?
So anyways, my friend and I go to his house one night and hang out there for a little bit. I see he keeps paying more attention to me than anything.
So the next night I text him a question. He responds, from then on we just keep messaging for like 2 days. We then decided that we wanted to become friends with benefits.
So lastnight night I went over there and well it happened. My best friend has no idea. I did kinda feel bad but I don't. She acts a fool sometimes about him and it's ridiculous.
Do yall think it was wrong of me to do that?
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cLaY - 11-09-2005
nope, please come fuck me next
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WoolyGoat - 11-09-2005
This should get the board moving...
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fem - 11-09-2005
cLaY Wrote:nope, please come fuck me next
Ok good, I feel better now. I'll be there in a few hours.
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cLaY - 11-09-2005
i think people should fuck whomever they wish.
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WoolyGoat - 11-09-2005
fem Wrote:Ok good, I feel better now. I'll be there in a few hours.
Well if it's that simple...
Ahem...do me too!
Drama - ntype - 11-09-2005
usually relationship as a "fuck buddies" doesn't ends up as good relationship, personally if I already fucked the chick without having to be "the official bf with all the hassles that this got" I would be quite reluctant to move the relationship.
Moreover if the chick start being quite intrusive with calling everytime, etc. I would say like "wtf she's an annoying bitch in fact". What I said could sound wrong but it's quite true, you gf should have started with a calm conversation with him to settle things down, now sms'ing him like crazy.
And as a second she's supposed to get married, the dude won't make another move because she'll obviously going to ask for that thing too (she missed one chance, now she won't wait 10 years to try to hook some men) in a quite short term.
The dude saw the thing coming "she's going to change my life in some kind of hell until I didn't gave her anything she wanted, and if I do that I would finish being some kind of pet-husband".
Now the fact that you had some kind of intercourse with the dude means that you've become the new fuck buddy with guaranteed secrecy as you won't tell anyone what happenned (otherwise your friend may know it and you don't want to tell her).
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Anhil8tor - 11-09-2005
I never understood why females fuck the same guys. It seems like if a guy can get "in" with one friend he will pass on all of them at sometime.
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BIRD33 - 11-09-2005
What position did it happen in?
Drama - ntype - 11-09-2005
Anhil8tor Wrote:I never understood why females fuck the same guys. It seems like if a guy can get "in" with one friend he will pass on all of them at sometime.
good chicks friends that hang out together tend to settle to common standards through their discutions "I want a nice hubby *yeah me too* (and stuff)".
They could be physical or intellectual standards, anyhow once a dude "passed with success" the test of the first chick the other chick, by emulation spirit, hidden jealousy, because they want to prove that they could do this dude too, etc. could tend to be "more open" to that dude self.
Drama - Vitamin E - 11-09-2005
She should give him a hand written gift certificate for a pooperdoodle.
He'll come back (once)
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Anhil8tor - 11-09-2005
ntype Wrote:good chicks friends that hang out together tend to settle to common standards through their discutions "I want a nice hubby *yeah me too* (and stuff)".
They could be physical or intellectual standards, anyhow once a dude "passed with success" the test of the first chick the other chick, by emulation spirit, hidden jealousy, because they want to prove that they could do this dude too, etc. could tend to be "more open" to that dude self.
Thanks Master Yoda..
your knowledge is impecable
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fem - 11-09-2005
Anhil8tor Wrote:I never understood why females fuck the same guys. It seems like if a guy can get "in" with one friend he will pass on all of them at sometime.
Funny, we've had sex with 3 of the same guys now. The guy I'm kinda dating right now, she's had sex with his brother. It's funny.
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BIRD33 - 11-09-2005
ntype Wrote:good chicks friends that hang out together tend to settle to common standards through their discutions "I want a nice hubby *yeah me too* (and stuff)".
They could be physical or intellectual standards, anyhow once a dude "passed with success" the test of the first chick the other chick, by emulation spirit, hidden jealousy, because they want to prove that they could do this dude too, etc. could tend to be "more open" to that dude self.
Ntype this is more of a guys ask fem dirty questions thread not a bald euro pontificates about relationships thread.
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fem - 11-09-2005
BIRD33 Wrote:What position did it happen in?
Quite a few different ones.
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Anhil8tor - 11-09-2005
fem Wrote:Funny, we've had sex with 3 of the same guys now. The guy I'm kinda dating right now, she's had sex with his brother. It's funny.
you and her should pull a threesome with the guy.
Its the only way he will actually care for her... and besides its what you two really want.
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cLaY - 11-09-2005
my cock can't take this kind of abuse so early in the morning. he's already tired from this morning's shower.
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fem - 11-09-2005
Anhil8tor Wrote:you and her should pull a threesome with the guy.
Its the only way he will actually care for her... and besides its what you two really want.
Nah, I really don't give a fuck about the guy. I don't "fall" easy anymore. He will never care for her no matter what. He can't stand her, he made that very clear lastnight. No threesome's for me.
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cLaY - 11-09-2005
fem Wrote:Nah, I really don't give a fuck about the guy. I don't "fall" easy anymore. He will never care for her no matter what. He can't stand her, he made that very clear lastnight. No threesome's for me.
this isn't the same "friend" we talked about, is it?
Drama - PurpleHaze - 11-09-2005
fem Wrote:Do yall think it was wrong of me to do that?
Kinda.
Sorry Fem. I just know that if one of my friends fucked a guy I liked, whether I was being stupid about it or not, I'd be pissed and it'd hurt my feelings. She'll probably be upset if she finds out.
But then again, I guess it depends on how good of friends you guys are. If yall aren't that tight, I guess it's not that big of a deal. But if yall are best friends and stuff......hopefully she'll get over it and him.