01-16-2007, 11:58 AM
Learn to remember names. A name is very important to someone. If you donât take the time to learn someoneâs name, it indicates that youâre not interested in him or her. When someone remembers your name, it gives you the feeling that you are interesting or important.
Be easy going and natural. When you are stiff, reserved or unresponsive, you unconsciously build up a barrier. But when you are easy going and natural it is easy for people to like you.
Be interesting. Have something to talk about that people find interesting or stimulating. This way people want to be with you.
Donât have a big ego. If you give the impression that you know it all, that you are superior, you make it hard for people to like you. Be normally humble.
Do some self-study and get rid of negative attitudes. People can consciously or unconsciously pick those up and they might find it irritable to be around you.
Always look for the positive qualities in a person. Getting people to like you is merely the other side of liking them.
Try to build up someoneâs ego. Make compliments. Congratulate upon someoneâs achievement, or express sympathy when they are in sorrow or if they feel disappointed. The ego is a sacred thing; every human being has the desire to feel important. When you deflate someoneâs ego, you are wounding him deep inside.
Give strength to people, support them. Help them to be stronger and they will give you affection.
Whether you like to admit it or not, we want people to like us. If someone tells you that he does not really care if people like him or not, he simply is not being honest. The longing to be liked is one of our deepest desires. We want to be popular, we want people to speak nothing but good of us and we want to have affection of the people around us. It is in our human nature.
Be easy going and natural. When you are stiff, reserved or unresponsive, you unconsciously build up a barrier. But when you are easy going and natural it is easy for people to like you.
Be interesting. Have something to talk about that people find interesting or stimulating. This way people want to be with you.
Donât have a big ego. If you give the impression that you know it all, that you are superior, you make it hard for people to like you. Be normally humble.
Do some self-study and get rid of negative attitudes. People can consciously or unconsciously pick those up and they might find it irritable to be around you.
Always look for the positive qualities in a person. Getting people to like you is merely the other side of liking them.
Try to build up someoneâs ego. Make compliments. Congratulate upon someoneâs achievement, or express sympathy when they are in sorrow or if they feel disappointed. The ego is a sacred thing; every human being has the desire to feel important. When you deflate someoneâs ego, you are wounding him deep inside.
Give strength to people, support them. Help them to be stronger and they will give you affection.
Whether you like to admit it or not, we want people to like us. If someone tells you that he does not really care if people like him or not, he simply is not being honest. The longing to be liked is one of our deepest desires. We want to be popular, we want people to speak nothing but good of us and we want to have affection of the people around us. It is in our human nature.
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